The dream of millions of people
To live an incredible life, achieve personal and financial freedom, quit that boring 9 to 5 job you can’t stand anymore. Is this what you want? I guess so.
If you really want to fire your boss, good news: you can do it.
All millions of people unsatisfied with their career make every day the same statement: “I Cannot live like this anymore, I don’t want to work this job“.
But they do, every single day, for at least forty years!
You build your cage
Do you know how much energy you are wasting every time you complain? Tons, or better, mega joules of precious vital power directed to feed painful states. You make your own limits with your affirmations, you set your barriers in concrete steel, you build your own cage.
When you think of a better life you irradiate that sense of lack that will trap you where you are, you won’t make any progress. I have a friend who never dared to take a plane, he is working his boring job since he finished college, and recently he confessed me he is living in the past, in his youth, in the days where he had no problems, when his boundaries were not yet defined. -You can change just if you want, I told him. He answered no, I can’t, what is done is done, if I’ve been living this life for twenty years, it means that this is what it has to be.
Many of us share the same beliefs of this guy. Bad choices, negative situations, unlucky circumstances signed our destiny forever. We accept the miserable outcome we created, and take refuge in social drugs like television or pointless conversations in a café, dreaming with resignation. The every morning complain about life is a well established ritual by now, a part of our existence.
How many do find themselves more or less mirrored in this situation? Millions!
How many have found how to escape from this debilitating routine? I tell you, about 2%. Ninety eight people over one hundred haven’t, and they never will.
You can be one of the winners, though.
You can create your reality, and change it again at your will, if you like. Fire your boss.
Write it!
Find out what you want, what you really like, and write it down, you have to
write it.
With this action you already created your manifestation, now what you must do is to grab it, bring it to your life, near you, local.
Are you sure this is what you want?
Write down at least 10 reasons why you want what you wished. Again, write it down, don’t just think of them.
Be an actor
Imagine to see yourself in your new life, watching yourself achieving your goals. Make this movie alive,
big, with colors, sounds, feelings, it is real isn’t it?
Repeat this process at least once a day, read what you have written and visualize, watch your movie, you are the star, the first actor.
Following these steps, you will shift your awareness from the actual condition to the new one, with mathematical precision.
You don’t have boundaries, you are not the bird in a cage. Just change your focus. The simple technique above is a part of Neuro Linguistic Programming, and it is aimed to goal achievement, and it works, at one condition.
Your brain must believe you are getting there, for real. If for ten minutes, while working on those steps, you emanate positive vibration, and for the rest of the day you return to your destructive thoughts, what do you think you will have back? The same bad things. Positive thinking must be the prevalent, if not the unique, form of thought, 24/7, even when you sleep.
When I tried first to practice these steps, I fell in a harmful spiral; negativity prevailed and nothing changed. I then used the trick to firmly believe I was already the person I wanted to become, or that I had already achieved my goal many times a day, especially
when I had to face particular challenges, stepping inside the
Circle of Power
Think of who you want to become, recall that wonderful movie you created, those empowering feelings.
Now draw an imaginary circle, step into it, taking those feelings with you.
Every time you need to reinforce your manifestations, step inside your private circle, your brain will automatically make you feel your new powers, because you created a neural connection.
This method will make you keeping the right state to achieve your goals, your vibrations will be positive and attracting like.
I personally experienced that after 2-3 weeks things started to change, I witnessed coincidences, I worked out possibilities
I was never been aware of, like magic.
Change of focus is an amazing thing, it makes you discover solutions, ideas, meet new people, new plans, new places.
If you are not happy with your actual situation, create a new one and bring it home. Never ever think that something cannot change, because when you change, everything will.
You will fire your boss, be prepared to this.











Love this analogy of firing my boss. Another thought, fire anyone who is constantly negative in your life. Your listening to their negativity is blocking your blessings.
Elio,
I love this post! So many people are unhappy in their job situation. A friend sent me some CDs called Abraham Hicks. I believe they are aligned with your thinking. If you haven’t checked them out, I believe you would like them.
So many people are on “automatic pilot” and they fear change. They choose to stay in a job they are not happy with because they are afraid to try something new. They fear the risks associated with initiating change. I think your post is very insightful.
Jeanne
A prayer that I have found to be extremely effective is the all time favourite - The Serenity Prayer.
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
The courage to change the things that I can;
And the wisdom to know the difference.”
The critical aspect of this prayer is that the only thing one can really change in this life is oneself.
@Mckay
You are right, absolutely. It’s an act of self-defense!
@Jeanne
Great advice. I read Abraham Hicks books, and they are very inspiring.
@rummuser
Lovely prayer, in those few words you get the key to real wisdom!
I’m glad I found you through mybloglog. I had a moment this morning where I got frustrated because things hadn’t happened yet as I wanted. So, I decided to visualize, as you describe in your post, that I already was where I wanted to be in life.
Then, 30 minutes later I read your article. Kind of feel like it is the universe confirming I’m on the right path with it all.
Tawnya, thank you for your comment:)
yes, it’s really a small secret after all. Nevertheless is not easy, because we deal with tons of contrasting feelings that can lead us to the wrong path. NLP is a powerful tool, much more complex than the basic techniques I briefly exposed here.
Elio, “Be an actor” I love that. I am a great day dreamer, I
picture myself in all sorts of fabulous situations and I even
find myself talking out loud with the people that I want to meet.
Doing this really lifts my spirit and enables my to draw closer to
to my long term goals.
Great post.
@ Carol
You are doing well…in another post I will write what Napoleon Hill did…